Premature Ejaculation Cure

The first thing that I’d like to clear up is that Premature Ejaculation isn’t an illness or a disease that can be cured like a flu bug or something similar. Rather, in curing Premature Ejaculation you must understand that it is actually a condition that is highly treatable with the right guidance and knowledge. It has to be said that 95% of premature ejaculation cases can be treated this way however there are a very small number that are actually physiological problems which may need specialized therapy or even medication.

For the rest of you 95% that suffer from premature ejaculation but don’t have any physiological problem, the absolute best way to cure premature ejaculation is to understand yourself and your sexual being better. Many men mistakenly think that the end-game of sex is orgasm and thus strive for it single mindedly. This contributes significantly to premature ejaculation. The goal of sex should be to create a bond by achieving sexual pleasure by both parties. This often means that the male has to actually physically learn to put off climaxing to “wait” for his partner to achieve the same level of sexual excitement.

To achieve putting of climax for your partner’s sake the absolute best way is to do it and learn to control it by yourself. This is the best cure because it will last in the long-term and also doesn’t involve any external factors which can prove to be a problem at a later stage. The first step is in recognizing the “point-of-no-return” when you have start to enter the stage of climax and orgasm. You must feel the on-set and recognize it, if possible put a mental bookmark on it so that when it comes next time you know it’s to act.

The next step after recognizing the “point-of-no-return” is to act on it so that you can prolong your plateau and not reach climax. Most times this is quite hard as the sexual urge is rather hard to overcome but it must be done in order to effectively cure premature ejaculation. When you feel the time is near you must slow down your intercourse of even stop it for a while so that the feeling subsides. It is a mechanical response and is effective on most males. This means that you must do something else to keep the sexual pleasure of you partner up while you try to keep you loaded gun from shooting. After a brief moment you can continue where you left off until you feel the urge to climax again where you can repeat the cycle. Initially it will indeed be hard to control but with an understanding partner and some patience you can get this down to a tee and work magic under the covers.

Alternatively, there are also other short-term remedies which although are also effective do not provide a long-term cure to premature ejaculation. The most widely used method is to double or triple up the condoms which will reduce the man’s level of stimulation thus reduce the instances of premature ejaculation.

Sometimes anesthetic gels or creams can also be used to numb the penis thus achieving the same results as the previous point. This however is dangerous as it can also act to numb your partner which isn’t very comfortable.